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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hot, rich, and family minded/faithful?

You gotta pick 2 out of 3.  The number of men who are all 3 is vanishingly small.[/quote]

Honey you are lucky if you get literally one of these.[/quote]

+1, I know a bunch of men who are family minded/faithful and none of them are hot or rich (some of them do make pretty decent salaries and work hard for them, but they aren't "rich" and definitely weren't when they got married).

Most rich guys aren't hot. The very few that are either get snapped up really young OR they are huge aholes.

The more successful/high earning a guy is, usually the less family-minded he is. This wasn't necessarily true a generation or two ago, but it is now. Men who are very driven by success and achievement don't have much interest in being equal parenting partners, and will always choose the career advantage over time with their families.

And finally: so few men are truly "hot". Just like with women, you're talking about a tiny fraction of the population. Some men do a good job of cleaning themselves and presenting the best version of themselves. Just like a lot of women do this too -- work out, right haircut, take care with clothes, take care of skin, etc. A lot of high earners are like this because taking care of their appearance is also good for their careers. But they aren't "hot". And by the time they turn 50, they'll look like they're 50. Trust me.[/quote]

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