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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Someone mentioned potluck love language, I don't understand what kind of love language is a zero effort one? She doesn't have to bring anything, most people don't. 
 she volunteer s to do it to make herself look good. Mostly it's the aunts, mother-in-law's, and such that do because they want to share.  Why should she get the same praise as someone that deserves it?  I'm going to tell her not to bring anything even drinks. That way she won't get credit for something that she shouldn't. It isn't fair.  It's easy to be the fun likeable one when you don't actually put forth any effort.
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No, she volunteers because she wants to share and participate too. You sounds extremely bitter and ungrateful. So she buys food? Why do you care so much? And why are you keeping score on the praise? She deserves praise too for thinking about what to provide, working for the money to buy it, presenting it on the right day at the right time. OP, you are the problem here.[/quote]

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