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[quote=Anonymous]Men can compartmentalize sex more easily than women. When a husband has an affair, it doesn't have to mean that he's unhappy in his marriage or that he's not getting enough sex. It doesn't have to mean anything at all, actually.

When a wife has an affair, it's usually because she's at least 95% out the door anyway. A wife's affair is almost always an exit affair, and although circumstances obviously vary, she will usually leave the marriage to be with the other man. If the Other Man is truly not available to her, maybe she will stay in the marriage but it's only a matter of time before she leaves for someone else.

In Samantha Silva's case, her affair partner was 62ish and had been married for more than 25 years when they started fooling around. Silva was 52 and had been married for 23 years. It would be interesting to know why he decided to leave his marriage. I suppose Silva alluded to that slightly, that both of them were in good enough (but not great) marriages and were "happy enough" etc. Still. 25+ years. It must have been true love, right? Especially if they are still together now, 12 years later. I'm also curious why they never married. I'm so nosy but that's what Silva gets for airing her dirty laundry.[/quote]

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