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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just watched a documentary about rampant sexual abuse in the Boy Scouts so this is freshly on my mind but I don’t think I trust people who want to work around kids.

I just guess I can’t understand their reasoning unless it’s nefarious?

The pay in these jobs is always very low and very rarely have good benefits.  I just don’t believe people do it because they “love” other peoples kids.  I love my kid, but not really anyone else’s.  I don’t want them harmed of course but never would I willingly spend any amount of time with someone else’s kids.  Kids are gross and obnoxious.  The only reason I can see people putting up with it would be if they’re their kids or they’re paid incredibly well to put up with it.

And I don’t want to seem like I’m demonizing educators.  I can somewhat understand the draw for teachers.  I’m sure helping young people learn can give some people an internal, moral drive.

But I just can’t shake this suspicion of yeah, obviously volunteer based work like Cub Scout leaders or children’s swim coaches or any job where an adult chooses to spend a lot of time with children often without parents.

My baby is an infant and only is cared for by myself, my DH and my mother but at some point I’ll have to let her be under the care of someone else and it just really scares me.

We toured a daycare when DD was about 4 months old and I just thought… why would anyone work here?  It seemed like hell and the pay was abysmal.  My mind couldn’t shake the idea that these people just wanted access to my kid and it freaked me out.

Call me crazy, but think about it.  What benefits are there?  Why would some 40-year-old choose to spend all day with other peoples kids making $15 an hour when they could have an easier job with adult interaction and make $18 an hour?  I just can’t believe it’s a “goodness of their heart” thing.  People don’t work like that. [/quote]

No, not without more.    One of my son's favorite preschool teachers was a young man who was working full time at a day care and going to school at night.  Both his parents were teachers and they didn't have enough money to put all four of their kids through college, so several were working to pay for it.  He was fabulous, and went on to be a kindergarten teacher, and then 3rd grade teacher.   He's now married and has two children himself.  His wife works for the government.   Typical, normal family.   He just happens to be good at connecting with kids and chose this as a profession.  And I am happy he did.  One, I want men to think they can go into stereotypically female jobs and thrive.  Two, it's great for my son to have had several male teacher role models showing him that excelling at school is a good thing.  And not a nerdy thing to be shunned or mocked, which is more common than you may think.[/quote]

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