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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men are not loved unconditionally is the answer. Not like women and children are. Even the best examples here the woman would lose attraction if the guy started acting whiny or had a mental health crisis or some other thing. [/quote]

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Women typically love their children unconditionally, but not there husbands[/quote]

As opposed to men who don't love their children unconditionally?? The fact many men dump their wives or stop having sex with them for whatever reason surely means men don't love women unconditionally. [/quote]

They don’t, and shouldn’t. [b]But women are more likely than men to think they should be loved unconditionally[/b].[/quote]

What do you mean by this?[/quote]

"You should absolutely love me no matter what I do" is a far more common attitude among women than men. [/quote]

This isn’t true.  
For example, [b]men are six times more likely to leave the marriage when their wives get diagnosed with cancer[/b]. Men are also more likely to leave women who have a substance use disorder, and [b]are more likely to leave when their wives are dealing with any chronic illness[/b].

You can certainly say that this is due to hormonal factors or to societal roles that place women as caretakers, so men don’t feel as comfortable with the role.  It doesn’t have to be a moral failing.

But you can’t say that men are more likely to love women “no matter what.”  That just isn’t true.

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What is the source of each of those statements? I'm calling bs on that.[/quote]

This is from a quick google search:

https://archive.nytimes.com/well.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/11/12/men-more-likely-to-leave-spouse-with-cancer/

https://acsjournals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/cncr.24577

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20.8% of men abandon their wives following a cancer diagnosis, while only 2.9% of women leave their husbands.

The women you are dating, pp, who you think comprise the entire female gender, are only a very small fraction of women.  You probably need to do some self-reflection and figure out why you keep going for that 3% and ignoring the other 97% of women.  
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Wonder how many of those women are financially dependent on the man? From what I have seen women are much more likely to leave a man who has financial problems, sick, loses a job, etc. This is part of what a woman wants in a man- strong, not sick, not dependent and making money. Men know this from an early age. Women will leave if something better comes a long. [/quote]

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