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[quote=Anonymous]Thank you everyone! The kind words have been helpful to my son and me. I showed him this thread. He didn't love that I asked the question, but he appreciated the responses. To answer some questions that were posed to me:

Someone asked what type of therapy he receives: He started seeing a therapist when he was first diagnosed in 7th grade. We started with CBT but as he has aged it is now more supportive Psychotherapy.

Someone asked if he is second guessing his choice: He is not. The decision is made. Money has been paid. He is happy with his choice. He just felt a certain way about reactions to his choice and wasn't sure how to handle them. I know many suggested he ignore it, and everyone is correct. However, if you know someone with ADHD you know they tend to accentuate the negative.

Someone asked if I was the one with the problem and not DS: I am thrilled he chose GMU. Likely for selfish reasons. I spent years worrying if this kid could truly live far from home. Time has shown me he absolutely can and I would have supported him if he made that choice. But I am glad he chose to be near, just in case. And I was serious when I said he can choose to see us daily or never. This is his time to spread his wings, and we will not infringe on his space just because he is nearby. He will control how often he sees us. I do hope for a weekly or biweekly phone call but maybe that's asking a lot. That said, the comments do affect me. I'd be lying if I said they did not. I know better but it still hurts. So yes, part of the question was to help me get over it too.

I think I answered all the questions that were asked. I REALLY appreciate this thread. People were kind and helpful. Special thanks to the poster who wrote about their experience with GMU accommodations. I hope people continue to share positive GMU experiences in here for other families looking at it as an option for them. [/quote]

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