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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s called ADHD. [/quote]

Would it be called that if it were the husband? Or man child?[/quote]
ADHD, absolutely.[/quote]

Why can't it just be lazy procrastinator? I'm pretty sure I'm a lazy procrastinator (here I am on DCUM!). I would love it to be something explainable like ADHD but [b]that seems like a lazy excuse[/b]. ha. [/quote]
And this right here is exactly what keeps people from a diagnosis, keeps those of us with ADHD in constant self loathing, and destroys relationships. These tasks are actually incredibly hard for her, OP. It’s okay to be frustrated but she’s not being lazy. She’s struggling. She doesn’t want to be this person. You can get help or at least set her up for success by operating differently. [/quote]

It’s not “an excuse”. It’s understanding the issue and how to fix it. 
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And then fixing it. Takes action and new habits by both parties. [/quote]

Or OP could work on fixing his anger and anxiety.  
Does it actually make any kind of real impact on his life if $2500 is not invested properly?  Or his wife doesn’t keep up with the new exercise routine she talked about?

One day, his wife is going to develop some self esteem and leave.  
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