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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No. Young attractive women mostly have no interest in middle aged men. [/quote]
Tell yourself whatever you need to so you can sleep at night, but life is more nuanced than that. Young or old, most women are looking for a man who is stable and a good provider, especially in this economy with a recession looming. If the married dad still looks pretty good, is affable and wealthy, his age and marital status will be ignored.

Frankly, if you bring a young, gorgeous woman into your home and put her in front of your husband multiple days per week... you're playing with fire. Most husbands love their wives and aren't inclined to cheat, but human beings are flawed. [/quote]

Most are smart enough to know that the married man provides for his family not them. Bang a well off guy just may mean a few nice dinners or a gift or two, but unless the au pair pulls the goalie, it doesn't mean financial security [/quote]

“Pulling the goalie” doesn’t mean financial security when the dad can have her deported. Good luck proving paternity from home country, and good luck re-matching and staying in the U.S. if the dad says you’re unsafe with kids/on drugs. Dads in the au pair program are extremely creepy and the power dynamic is a catastrophe.[/quote]

We don't deport pregnant women who are the victims of sexual assault. A smart au pair would make that claim if dad tried to have her deported [/quote]

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