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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When people show you who they are, believe them. She doesn’t value the friendship. She had no interest in telling you she was leaving and when contacted she still didn’t say why. So move on. Is it rude, yes.  Does she suck? Probably. And I’m sorry. I’m actually mad for you.

I know one person who has done something this drastic and her story was she found out her husband had been cheating on her (several affairs) so she literally packed up her car, pick up the kids from school and drove to their second home all the way in CALIFORNIA. She didn’t even confront him, just left the house and everything. But she did tell her friends about a week later.  She said what had happened, she had left, was never coming back. It was nuts. They’re divorced, she remarried.

So even if she has a death or sick relative or job relo she can give an explanation. But she doesn’t want to. So I would stop making excuses for her and just walk away.  I’m sorry. [/quote]

+1. OP, I don’t know why anyone on this thread is being unkind to you. You sound like a very nice normal person and this is very very unusual behavior. All of these people suggesting reasons why the friend might have moved quickly or in secret are ignoring the point. Instead of “yeah lol” the friend could say literally a million other things. Like “this must have been a surprise, can’t explain details right now” or “thanks for reaching out, hope you have a nice end to the school year” or “I appreciate your text” or “things have been totally crazy”. Any of these would be more human. [/quote]

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