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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do people keep telling OP he seems depressed and get him screened?  Is that somehow new or helpful info?  She said *in the OP* that she thinks he's depressed and fights against any screening.  She can't get him treatment against his will.[/quote]

No, but she can make crystal clear the costs he will incur if he does not finally man up and get screening, take it seriously, and accept any treatment he needs. It's time for what some would refer to as her "come to Jesus" talk with him. He can buck screening all he wants, but needs to know he is making her life and their kids' lives bad, and she can make a choice to end the marriage, or ask him to move out while she considers what to do. [/quote]

Yes, he needs to "man up" and become a wage slave after already risking his life for 20 years. Why doesn't anyone ever tell a lazy woman to "woman up"? [/quote]

Not all military risk their lives.  [/quote]

Especially not officers[/quote]

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