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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Time for a heart-to-heart. Have you told her how you feel?[/quote]

We are having the discussions and this is where it gets tricky. I bring up an issue but instead of dealing with issue 1, she brings up issue 2 and now the entire meeting is about issue 2.

So let's say it's about her ignoring me. I bring it up, then she brings up me going on Facebook. And before I can respond she's got like 6 different instances of when this has occurred and I'm trying to remember instance 2. So the conversations never go like I want them to. And they never get back to my points.

I feel isolated though. I don't know if she realizes what she's doing is cutting at my self conscious to so call build my social confidence. Like I was really having thoughts this morning of "quitting" the kind of work that I do. I don't know what that means though because would I really quit, or would I stop doing research, would I look for an admin or financial job?

So much of who I am is based on this personality and the fact that I was thinking of quitting is what made me write this today. I needed somebody to talk with and like I said my wife is good at turning it around and making me the villain (not saying I'm not) but I just wanted to vent today[/quote]

NP. My advice is to be the person YOU want to be. Your wife may or may not like that person—you have no control over that. But, you only have one life, and you need to build self-trust. You need to like yourself. If she doesn’t change or still tells you you’re the problem, then do you really want to stay with her? If you do, let her comments about you roll off your back. It takes two people to make a marriage work. Never forget that. [/quote]

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