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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] [b]She probably won’t react well if you tell her that and will become defensive, but it’s the truth[/b]. It’s not appropriate to spill your trauma compulsively in every social situation. [/quote] I agree with this. If you are willing to risk that she gets defensive and mad and the potential fallout that might have on your friendship, go for it. But I would just understand that this might be the reaction and decide if you are ok with that.[/quote] I think the only other option is to limit invitations to situations where trauma dumping would be more easily accommodated. She may not understand why though and the urging to get professional help or at least the 12 step support group mentioned could be life changing for her. [/quote]
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