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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m shocked by the responses here. If your kid is black do you let them use the n word? I teach my kids not to use any language that could be offensive to others. [/quote] You're missing the forest for the trees here. If you are non-black you don't ever need to interact with a stranger black child unless they are hitting your child or damaging your property. Then you can do what is necessary. But if they are just using bad language or damaging public property, do not approach and do not engage, and do not worry about what their parents let them do. Whatever values black people teach their children is their business.[/quote] When the kids taunt or bother the other kids, it is no longer a private matter. It seems the values are a little weak if that lesson wasn't taught.[/quote] Sticks and stones can break your bones. I just cannot believe that in 2023 anyone in their right mind would say something to a total stranger about watching their language in public, let alone a child that ain't yours, let alone a black one. For all you know his older brother could have been around the corner with a gun. Put your safety and well-being above your need to demonstrate moral superiority and wait until you are alone with your child to have a talk about certain things. [/quote] Black kids aren't untouchable. And why are you assuming the older black brother has a gun? [/quote] This thread is full of rich people who have never lived outside a gated community and have no street smarts whatsoever. See you in the news I guess.[/quote] What's the lesson you're trying to teach exactly?[/quote] That street smarts cannot be learned by reading a forum for rich ladies, they have to be learned through experience living among folks of all different kinds. [/quote] And this is something you think you are uniquely experienced in? You sound extremely sheltered like you gained all your smarts from watching tv.[/quote] Ma'am, you have no idea about anything. Good luck to you, because you are really going to need it if you ever venture beyond your tony suburb.[/quote] Your assumptions are so cute. Clutch that purse tighter when passing scary people.[/quote]
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