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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm really perplexed how anyone thinks the DH's behavior here is reasonable. A parent should expect to spend time with their child on the weekend without pouting.[/quote]

OP herself said everything her husband did was "fine."  OP procrastinated doing her work project all day and then late in the day when she finally got around to starting, suddenly realized that it was more involved thsn she had anticipated.  She panicked and asked husband to take kid out of the house for several hours.  For how long? We dont know, maybe all night?  Is that good planning by her?

In any event she also said her request was optional.   She would go to the coffee shop instead.

So what is the problem then.  Go to the damn coffee shop, get the work done you should have finished hours or days ago, and plan better next time.

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OP here. First, I just want to say I am sorry about your mental health issues. As someone with family members who have similar disorders, I know it is a lifelong struggle. I hope you get the help you need.

Second, my DH took DC to the park, as requested. They had a great time and DC practiced riding the new "big" bike. Everyone was in a better mood when they got home. I got the small amount of work I needed to get done today done. I also posted on DCUM a bit and got a little prep work done on dinner.  At no point did anyone panic or discover something was going to take a lot longer than they thought.

I posted because I was genuinely confused as to how I was supposed to let my DH know that I needed him to take over parenting duties while I did the work he was aware I needed to do. I found the conversation somewhat interesting. I agreed with some posters and did not agree with others. The only reason this thread is still going is because you have chosen it as the location for some kind of hallucinatory event.

Best of luck with whatever you have going on there.[/quote]

You are a nasty piece of work OP.  I feel sorry for your husband.  Thank you for admitting that mental illness is common in your family, that explains everything.[/quote]

OP seems pretty sane. You? Not so much. [/quote]

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