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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry I hit reply by accident. I meant to ask if you are a SAHM why don't you just stay at the timeshare as well with your kids? That way your MIL can get time with you and more importantly her grandkids while your husband is at work. Also I'm sure your MIL would want to spend time with her grandkids who wouldn't want that while you do some girly things and have some time for yourself?

Then in the evenings when your husband is done work him and your MIL can go out and have some time together. You will already have a little break from the kiddos during the day and then in the evenings you won't feel as tired or burnt out when your husband goes out with his mom. Seems like a win win for everyone. Who knows maybe one evening as a family you guys can all go sightseeing together? Give your husband some mother/son time a few evenings and then family evenings some other nights as well.

I'm shocked that 7 pages in no one else thought of this.

Also surprised your husband hasn't brought it up. There is literally a family house that you guys can stay in for free and you and your husband hasn't utilized that option.

I'm also shocked your MIL wouldn't offer that to her son for his wife/ her DIL and grandkids. This is close family. Is there normally tension or weirdness between you and MIL that this wouldn't just be a given? This isn't some casual friend here it's close family.

I would definitely talk to your husband about talking to his mother about you guys staying at the timeshare also.

My mind is boggled that she wouldn't offer this to her DIL and her own grandkids.[/quote]

DIL was NOT invited. Why does she get to invite herself because she doesn't want to take care of the kids alone for a few days. Why can't a son see his mother without the wife for once. Stop being so dam clingy. [/quote]

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