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Reply to "Feeling hurt when other people fall apart over their elderly ailing parents while mine died young"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP please ignore the judgmental PP's on here who are saying you're narcissistic, etc. Grief is complicated and there is nothing wrong with having the feelings you're having. It's completely normal and understandable. I think it's better to acknowledge/own the feelings you're having vs. "stuffing them down" and taking them out on your in-laws in some passive-aggressive way. You can't help how you feel and I'm tired of people judging others for their feelings. People can control their words and actions, not their feelings. Honestly, if I were in your situation I'm sure I would have similar thoughts/feelings. On the other hand, it's completely understandable for your in-laws to have the feelings they are having, too. On similar note, if you are up for it, therapy could be helpful and might be something to consider depending on the level of distress you feel. [/quote]
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