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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe the ILs are hoping that somewhere in her travels, SIL will find a nice, rich man who will give her a similar lifestyle and then they’ll be off the hook.  It’s probably harder to find a rich DH if she’s just living on minimum wage and can’t afford to go anywhere.

Have a little compassion for your ILs, OP.  If one of your own children grows up and has special needs, I doubt that you’d cut off all funding immediately on their 18th birthday and let them sink or swim all on their own, without feeling you should try to help.

This is your DH’s family. Let him handle his relationship with his family and stay out of their business. Go ask your own parents for money so you can travel.
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[b]SIL is milking it. She can live alone in NYC and travel internationally multiple times a year, but can't hold a job? It's called laziness and being coddled all her life.[/b][/quote]

Your SIL is my SIL, OP.  We have to sit back and watch this sh*t? No, I don't think so. [/quote]

Yes, you do. You have no power over how anyone else spends their money. Feel free to use the handy dandy social media block button if it gets your knickers in such a twist.

-homeowner and parent, whose own parents have never given me a dime as an adult [/quote]

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