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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I was an adult. The signs were there all along, but it was so normal, I didn’t realize it was abuse and neglect. It was just mom and dad being mom and dad. I remember incidents from childhood that I recognize now as uncaring, but they always had an excuse, a way to blame me, and/or minimized my feelings if I were brave enough to express them. [/quote] Same. Having my own kids made me realize how sh*tty my parents were.[/quote] Same here. Also, seeing how sh*tty of a grandparents they are to my kids.[/quote] Yes agree with both. You realize you didn't deserve that maltreatment as a child, and realize you lacked the emotional and cognitive maturity to see that, when you see your child being mistreated by your parents and you know he or she did nothing to deserve that. I spent a lot of time making sure my DS understood he wasn't to blame for my parents' comments and their neglect of him when he visited. [/quote]
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