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Reply to "Both my husband and I have no friends"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Invite invite invite. Eventually you will click with someone. [/quote] I am an inviter and this is how I have most of my adult friends. I relentlessly include people in activities and they sometimes, but not always include me back. I’ve actually experienced a lot of “friend rejection” this way, so I think having a bit of a thick skin is helpful. It’s funny how uncomfortable it is being rejected by a prospective friend especially if they don’t put some work in to let you down easy! One of the groups I connected actually morphed into a bit of a clique and now I’m trying to enjoy people in it 1:1 rather than a group since I don’t enjoy the clique dynamic. I love a good group sometimes, but I don't’ want to feel “exclusive” with a group where it feels like it fosters a left out dynamic for others. Just not my thing.[/quote]
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