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[quote=Anonymous]If I was your SIL1, I would resent this whole family too and consider divorce. She has no obligation to provide elder care for someone who clearly needs professional help. Get your MIL into a good facility asap or everyone in your family will resent each other. Ask me how I know? My MIL and FIL have been guilt tripping their daughter into providing elder care for a decade and she guilts her siblings into helping her through their many crises. Both of her siblings partners (including me) resent it and feel disregarded. No one likes each other, and it’s sad to have in laws who are more selfish to feed the denial of elderly parents than people who give a crap about everyone’s wellbeing. Give a crap about your SIL1 and stop the madness. [/quote]
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