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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It could be okay.  It’s a way for him to actually spend Christmas with his girls.
Would you rather he prefer to hang with his new girlfriend?  Yes, it could be weird or it could be a sign he’s a connected involved dad that’s willing to compromise.  I’d reserve judgement.  [/quote]

OP: Part of being divorced is splitting holidays though. You don't continue to act like you're a nuclear family.[/quote]

Ugh, OP you don't get it. No, divorce =/= never spending holidays together. They'll be a family forever. That's what happens when you have children together. His kids are a higher priority than you and if he's a decent parent then they always will be. You're the stereotypical jealous, insecure woman with no kids who's threatened by the Dad's commitment to his family. Any decent stepmom would support this commitment and be a source of love and support for the kids, not competing with them like you are. You're not stepmom material.

Plus the whole ghosting you for a month is reason enough to walk away. You need to find someone without kids so you both can be DINKS together.[/quote]

OP: Who said I didn't have kids?[/quote]

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