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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I did the surrogate/ donor egg thing at 44. Our life of not having children and traveling whenever we wanted to made us feel much younger than we actually were. We have a wonderful child but really we were too old. We were constantly exhausted. Years of infertility changed us also in ways we didn’t realize. I would not advise you to do this very expensive and time consuming project. Just when we became empty nesters my DH died. So the life we thought we would go back to didn’t happen. I think you are not being realistic about this — what is like in reality. Also you might consider changing therapists. Not all therapists are helpful. You are having a middle aged crisis, I think. [/quote] +1 I also had a baby via DE/surrogate, born when I was 45. We had been trying for ages by then. If OP starts at 45 she’ll be at least 47/48 by the time the child arrives, if everything goes smoothly. That is really late.[/quote]
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