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[quote=Anonymous]1. Time will lessen this pain. Right now, when you have just discovered it, is the worst.
2. Kids are flexible. They will survive, and even thrive after divorce, if you and their father can coparent peacefully. 
3. You did nothing to cause this. Your husband made these choices. You are in the same marriage, possibly struggling or lonely. But you did not choose to cheat. 
4. When you confront him, even the guy you think is a "good upstanding" guy will lie. Cheaters lie. It's astonishing. So gather proof before you confront. Get your ducks in a row. Consult a lawyer just to consider your options. See a therapist. Gather your thoughts. Rarely do men just roll over and confess.... they get combative, defensive, and lie some more. 
5. Cry as much as you need to. This SUCKS.
6. Listen carefully. You are a doctor. You survived medical school, childbirth, raising children while working one of the most challenging careers on earth. You are a badass b. Don't forget it. You can definitely live without a lying scumbag. You can support yourself and your children. Don't ever let him convince you that you deserve to be lied to, cheated on, or walked over. When you lose confidence, envision the herd of women behind you who have walked this unpleasant path before you. We would love to take you out for drinks, and sit around laughing about this stupid sh*t one day.

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