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[quote=Anonymous]I'm another one who has sorta resigned myself to living with a cheating man.  I don't know that I'd call it sex addiction, more like his hobby.  Like trying all the flavors in the rainbow and the thrill of the hunt.  This is in regards to the type of cheating mine and yours is doing -- hookups, not relationships.  I stay because he still gives me butterflies and because I'm attracted to very few people.  I take the approach of I'm content as long as he's fulfilling my sexual and emotional needs.  Sometimes he turns me down or seems low-drive, and that's when I get angry and anxious.  But that's rare so I live with it.

I will also say that, even though this doesn't make sense to most women, you can't make any pronouncements about the depth of his love for you and your kids based on his cheating.  All cheaters assume they won't get caught, and base their actions on that.  If you do confront him, the guilt of causing you pain might make him stop his activities for a while, but eventually once you settle back into a routine, he'll look for that excitement again, this time with better opsec.[/quote]

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