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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Thank you for the moral support. I know I am fortunate to have options and be financially secure. I just don't want my kids to grow up with divorced parents. The thought kills me. I know people do it everyday. But I just can't imagining bringing that pain on my children and would do anything to avoid it. I feel sick and like everything I have tried to build in my life has just gone up in flames.[/quote]

OP, I am so sorry.  Please know that it’s your husband’s actions that would cause this pain to your kids - even though that does not change their experience.  I agree with PP who suggested your DH may have sexual addiction issues, if the cheating is as frequent as you suggest with different partners.  Whether or not that’s it, he needs therapy to figure out his issues.  You need to take a step back and give yourself time to figure out what you really want.  Confronting your DH and telling him right away that you want yo reconcile gives him all the power and no reason to change his behavior.  Don’t offer that right away.  Go to survivinginfidelity.com for great advice from people who have been there.  Most of all, know that you deserve much better.[/quote]

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