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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well-run institutions and caregivers do. Future monarchs in centuries past were not raised by their parents because the assumption was that others could care for them. Children can learn from and receive love from many different people. I stay at home for me, not my kids. [/quote] I’ve worked with foster care youth and I promise you, most children do not grow up to be well adjusted adults. I find your mentality troubling. Do you nurture your children at all? Do you play with them? Are you affectionate? Do you tell them you love them? Do you spend time with them? Do you see your job as a parent to build healthy attachment? Having worked in “institutional” settings like nursing homes and daycares, I can tell you two things: 1) most people (young children and the elderly) prefer the home to an institutional setting and 2) no paid caregiver will ever care as much about your own family member as you do. [/quote]
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