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[quote=Anonymous]OP does not want to divorce. She separated from him and then reconciled. She wants his family not to invite his accuser to holidays. She may be fully in denial about her husband’s history and urges, or she may actually be right. There are a LOT of men who do exactly the stuff that’s described and never get busted. Other men think it’s cool. There are ways for those kinds of predators to rehabilitate socially if they don’t get arrested, but he did and now it’s all fair game. FWIW based on OP’s story, I’m getting “toxic masculinity and lack of boundaries and limited insight into what appropriate behavior is” and not “dangerous to young children.” If you actually wanted to understand why she married him, based on my experience with wives like her, it’s because he’s not actually dangerous to her kids. Their babysitter, maybe. OP’s female friends. But he is unlikely to abuse their kids based on his profile, and that’s how wives like her justify it. [/quote]
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