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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here’s another version: is it OK to invite adult friends (like colleague/friends or people I know from volunteering) to the service and the kiddush luncheon, but not the nighttime party, which is kids, relatives and a few longtime friends from out of town? Or is that rude?[/quote]

Yes, that would be pretty rude.

Besides, you don’t technically invite people to the service (assuming it’s not a private service). That’s open to anyone.[/quote]

Eh, I think it's borderline, provided you make sure that you spend time with them during the Kiddush. I had several colleagues that came for the service and stayed for the meal afterwards, but didn't come to the party afterwards (and they were invited). If they are not friends with your family/know others there, I don't think it's that bad. [/quote]

Disagree that this is rude or borderline. Growing up, this was done all the time in my community. We are doing this for my daughter's also. [/quote]

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