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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you have the kids for Thanksgiving, your soon to be ex is getting them for Xmas, right?[/quote]

Have you read the thread, dear? Please do so. [/quote]

Yes, I read that OP is making herself and her parents a priority this Thanksgiving. [/quote]

Then you should also have read that her ex gets the kids at Christmas. Or do you have selective blindness in order to paint OP as a shrew?[/quote]

There is no reason why they cannot come to Thanksgiving.[/quote]

They cannot come because she does not wish to host them. That is the only reason needed. If they want to spend time with her and the grandchildren, they could offer to host, and then OP could accept or not. [b]But they don't actually want to do any work, they just want to steam and pout that they don't get a nice meal served to them while they lift nary a finger. [/b][/quote]

Is this OP? Because this info doesn't seem to be in anything she posted.

And to be clear, I support OP not having her ILs. I just think it's counterproductive to not communicate with them about it.[/quote]

I totally support OP refusing to communicate with her in laws, but she can’t also then act surprised when they respond from a position of not knowing what the hell is going on. And it sure seems like OP could have predicted this would happen because she knows her ex doesn’t give it to his parents straight. [/quote]

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