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[quote=Anonymous]OP definitely needs some therapy and perhaps her mom should have handled things differently, but to place all of the blame on her mom when it is obvious her dad was the true failure here is just bonkers. He can make up a million excuses as to why he couldn't see his own kid, but you know what? That is HIM. not the mom. Did he go to treatment and become sober? no Did he move to be closer to the kids? no Did he attempt to spend weekends/holidays? no Did he send gifts or cards? no Did he show up for anything at all? no OP can idolize her dad and think they would have had a splendid relationship if her mom hadn't ruined it. Reality is, Dad woudl have bailed more times than he showed up. Likely would show up drunk and hopefully this wouldn't happen, but perhaps drive the kids drunk. No way mom should risk any of that. [/quote]
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