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[quote=Anonymous]I suspect the people who insist on giving gifts when someone has made a "no gifts" request are the same ones on threads who are horrified when someone has not used your gift or doesn't display it or doesn't thank you in the way you expect. Hugs can be nice, but if someone asks you not to hug them, do you do it anyway? Do you force it on them because nobody is going to tell you what to do. It's a boundary. If people set them, respect them even if you think what you are doing is generous and loving. It's not their love language. It's OK for people to prefer kindness and good times to be their love language. If you are so obsessed with giving material things to people who don't want it, what is that about? Nobody is going to tell you to stop spending YOUR money? Seriously?[/quote]
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