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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That poster that keeps insisting you made the kid find a job is a troll and a misogynistic one. Ignore.[/quote]

It's actually kind of useful for me to see his responses.  You see, my kids father can also be a misogynistic idiot with very limited reading comprehension.  So, it's helpful to be able to understand the ways he might be misunderstanding a situation.

-- OP[/quote]

You clearly hate men and don't want your child to have a relationship with Dad or it would have been a no from the start.  You agreed to the job and wanted him to say no.  You did the bad parenting, not him.  He had no choice but to support your decision.  There was no misunderstanding.  You said to look and get a job, the kid did.  You counted on none allowing the schedule as a way to say no and it backfired on you.  So, now you blame Dad for supporting your decision vs. taking responsibility.  You failed, not him.  You won but stopped the visit.  Yea you.[/quote]

DP. You clearly hate children of divorced parents and think they should suffer for their parents inability to stay married. All is his peers are going to have parents who pay to put them through college and part time jobs if they want spending money, and you think he should get neither to protect his dads schedule. [/quote]

Divorce has nothing to do with it.  There is nothing here about college and regardless of marriage, some parents pay for college and others don't.  But, a good way to guarantee Dad doesn't pay for college is terminating the relationship.  Why should Dad pay for college for a child he has no relationship with?  Ever think of that.  No one here is saying Dad is cutting off the child.  And, one is assuming child is getting child support.  People like you who terminate the relationships or only support limited relationships are the very ones who complain about Dad's paying for extra's by why should they if they don't have a relationship with the child.  [/quote]

Divorce has everything to do with it— if his parents were still married he could have a job. It’s because they aren’t married that he has to live by a special set of rules to protect his dad’s convenience. He’s going to be disadvantaged enough and you want to pile more burdens on the kid to make the dad’s life easier.[/quote]

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