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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am so sorry you have to deal with this. This is the precise occasion to stand up and stand firm. Your older sister is not invited. Period. If you have not responded to her, don’t. Cut off communication. As for your Mother, send her an email and be matter of fact. 1. Your sister and you are not on speaking terms 2. This is your family trip and you have say who can come. 3. If your parents are not happy that your older sister is not invited, they are welcome to stay home. I would drastically reduce contact with parents. Phone calls once a month, if on FB, put them in a category that get to see less pics of what you post. Create distance. They will be hurt but not as much as you have been hurt and you must focus on your own sanity and nuclear family. You have your twin and her family, cherish them. This is your family moving forward. Wishing you the best. [/quote]
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