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Reply to "Boyfriend is NOT a planner- do you have this dynamic?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean, in my experience, my wife would never trust me enough to book anything. Every last excruciating detail must be accounted for, and by the time the trip comes around it's largely a to-do list of joyless transactions. Now we do this. Now we do that. [/quote] My husband would probably say this about me, but if I didn’t plan anything, everyone would wake up each morning of the trip looking to me to figure out what we’re doing, where we’re eating, etc. [/quote] I hear you. But for my wife it’s like she has an agenda, and an obsessive need for control, and then feels victimized when there’s no help.[/quote] Do you have kids? It's really hard not to plan some things (like meals and activities) if you have little ones who will meltdown if hungry or get bored and tear up the place if you're not out and about. Planning can make it possible for the adults to relax more.[/quote]
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