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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have been with this guy 8 months. Do you want to get married? Do you want to have kids? Because it looks like you will do ALL the executive functioning.

I married a man that isn’t a planner. But he definitely would do a lot better than this guy. I do most of the executive functioning, but he does more of the “doing.” But when I tell him something is important to me, he plans it.

Personally, I would break up over this if it happened more than once. If it was the first time, I would have a real heart to heart. It find it disrespectful for someone to mess around with my schedule like this.[/quote]

OP: I don't necessarily want to get married again. We both already have kids. I do feel a bit hurt because I had explained to him weeks ago that since I'm a single mom, my free time away from my kids is really precious to me and I want to make the most of it. I honestly don't think he's a bad guy or had bad intentions. I do feel as someone else said, that this is not a priority to him.[/quote]

Did your previous boyfriend do a better job at planning? [/quote]

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