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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understnd why folks are het up about this.

In a well managed house there are only a few places DD's shirts will be in the first place. They are

1) in her room hanging up/in the drawers. 
2) they are in the hamper
3) they are in the laundry currently being washed/dried
4) they are being folded and put away as we speak.

But there are instances when you may ask, such as if you looking for a specific shirt. Such as if DD has no school uniform shirts hanging in her closet and it is Tuesday Morning!! Did they just get washed??!!!??? Reasonable concern before school. If you aren't the laundry person you might not know where things are in the cycle of dirty/clean.

I also don't understand the milk question. Is somebody making a grocery list or thinking about making a cake? Then it is a legit question.  "I think so" or "I'm not sure" or "I don't know"  are reasonable answers. Why else would you ask somebody else who is sitting elsewhere in the house if there is milk? I suppose if you reallllllly want to drink a glass of milk? Then ask "Honey bunny can you please get me a glass of milk? Thank you."

Ignoring the school email I totally get. Who wants to read that stuff? Not me.[/quote]

Op here. I’m talking about dh Standing in kitchen, I’m in another room. He shouts asking me if there’s milk in fridge, food for kids to eat etc
Literaly standing in front of the freaking fridge.

Kids shirts are in drawer. They’ve always been in the drawer. We’ve lived in the house for 3 years.[/quote]

So, still, you then have the opportunity to suggest to hiim that he open the fridge and take a look. "I don't know, why don't you look in the fridge?" "We have food for the kids if you make it" "Don't give the kids the cake I made for Charlie's birthday, but everything else if free game!"

As to DD's shirts, you ask "are they not in her drawer where I put them?"

What have you been respondig up til now? Why are  you snapping now?[/quote]

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