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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We just got back from a vacation in which my son's gf (both 17) went with us.

She was in a separate room with my daughters and there was no sneaking around at night.  If they had sex some other time, well, that's life.  We've gone over safe sex with him enough times for him to make an informed choice.    
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That's pretty hypocritical. Its ok if they have sex so long as I've not condoned it by putting them in the same room.  :roll: [/quote]
I don't think it's hypocritical at all.  Sounds realistic to me.[/quote]

Me too. Not setting up an environment where parent says "go have sex" or "go get drunk" tells your teen that you believe it is a better choice not to engage in these activities at their age. But at 17 you cannot force them to act in every way as you want.  You are setting an example and let that be that, they are not 13.  I see no hypocrisy in this at all.  [/quote]

If you don’t allow the boyfriend or girlfriend on he vacation at all, then they definitely can’t have sex. Shouldn’t you model that instead??[/quote]

Why are people on DCUM so hung up on sex?  Did you all wait until you got married? Seriously, wtf?[/quote]

Are you seriously saying you would want your own 17 year old DD engaging in in sex?

She is still in high school!! WTF?[/quote]

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