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[quote=Anonymous]NP here. This struck a nerve. I feel very judged by a former close friend for getting divorced. She hasn’t given details, but did admit to being uncomfortable with what l “chose to do” when l asked her what was going on with her decreased level of communication with me, and said she doesn’t have the bandwidth to think about why she’s uncomfortable. Which tells me I’m not that important to her. She’s rather not think about it and avoid me. I find it very unkind, as we were very close, but now it’s made me not want to be friends with her either. Who needs friends like that? I do have friends who’ve been very supportive and I consider myself pretty darn functional. Not letting yourself think about hard things to support a friend - besides being unkind that also seems dysfunctional to me. Emotionally shut down. [/quote]
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