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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP should start  from recognizing her own mistake marrying him. It's the worst: realization that you wasted a decade on a worthless person. But nobody but women themselves make these decisions to marry that person! I definitely saw the red flags (minor ones, like changing expensive private train car tickets to cheaper common car for a homeymoon, while he could totally afford it). But I ignored them and ended up with a cheap controlling multi millionaire as a husband who tracked my miserable earnings and spending, including parking fees.

When OP realizes she made a mistake, she will be ready to work on it and will meet the right person. Or not. But she will be happier. [/quote]

Going to say it louder for those who have issues with complexity: not all abusers start off with red flags. In fact, many abusers are very careful about their conduct in the initial stages / years of a relationship. If you keep buying into this bizarre and inaccurate narrative that abused people “should have known” you are not only denying facts and stigmatizing victims, but making yourself susceptible to abuse yourself.

Educate yourself on abuse. [/quote]

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