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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I assumed so but OP just confirmed it- she is a first gen immigrant. You are all looking at this through an American lens. OP are you Eastern European by chance? [/quote]

Yes, i am but what difference does it make? [/quote]

Because this is a cultural thing. The American posters on here are giving you a hard time because they come from a completely different cultural mindset. This is a very normal approach to Eastern European women. People don't get that. [/quote]

I am one of the very prominent posters in this thread and I myself have an Eastern European background and do not think this way. None of my family thinks this way including the rich ones. [/quote]

Are you first gen? Because unless you are your opinion is moot. [/quote]

I am not but my family is married into first gen…. And they do not think like you. Thank God. The way you think is an absolute liability to anybody with money. You’re not 20 years younger and you have nothing to offer. Not find anybody below the age of 52 or 53 would be remotely interested in you and your materialistic and snobby attitude. Guess what? you’re in the United States. Man with money and especially divorce men wanna protect their assets they don’t want to spend the money on you. Keep Wasting your money at the country club because honestly that is your best bet to find somebody are looking for. Vast majority of men in their 40s are married and the ones who have a lot of money or not gonna be interested in dating you might as well go 52+[/quote]

Why should I want to spend her money then on any man? I think exactly how you describe all men think about it and for some reason I am  judged and they are not.  Its some sort of 'men power", right? If there is such a thing, I would rather stay single and have a FB. And I totally can offer the same things as women in their 20-30s besides the youth. I still can have children, can be an equal partner, supportive of his career etc. Certainly more things to discuss for a 40yo man with me than with a 20 y.o. Oh, and please dont tell me all these men dating 20 yo women want to remarry. They typically remarry to women slightly younger or their age with something behind their belt. And the men dating 20 y.o. is not my focus of interest [/quote]

The very point of your post is that you wanted to get remarried again or have a long-term relationship. Now you’re backpedaling. Fact of the matter is is that I am the exact same age as you and I know my limitations. I’m not looking to remarry and I don’t have ridiculous expectations of a rich man wanting to be with somebody divorced with kids. You have an attitude that is extremely materialistic and I cannot see how any man remotely interested in tying themselves to somebody like you. Stay single and get an FWB because chances of you finding someone with your criteria who is of a similar age is less than 1%. Your expectations would be ridiculous at age 28 and you’re beyond ridiculous at age 43. [/quote]

I don't consider my net worth or income "rich". Literally all my neighbors are similar incomes/couples usually. Not sure I would want to take on another dependent in my age. [/quote]

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