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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. H wanted to talk and outlined an entire plan how he'll move out, come over to help in the evenings, get into therapy and treatment, build a support system, etc. Great.

Then he added, "but if we get back together, I need to know that if I screw up again, I can tell you and you won't get angry and kick me out again. Otherwise I'll end up lying to you so you don't get mad".

Wut. I feel like the dentist kid - "Is this real life?" That it's my fault if he lies because he doesn't want to be held accountable?[/quote]

He moves out, great, you start the clock on separation and consult a lawyer for next steps. If by a miracle his “treatment and support network” is successful than cool, he’ll be a better co-parent and maybe someone you can leave your children with. If (probably) nothing actually changes he will be well on his way to being someone else’s problem.  Perhaps part of his recovery can be signing a post-nup so he really has some skin in the game to avoid all these unavoidable screw ups of his. [/quote]

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