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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] He took over the home office you were using to work? NO! Kick is a$$ out of there and back to the office. Make sure he knows, KNOWS that 1) he's impacting your ability to work and contribute to the house (threaten to quit if needed) and 2) That this was your space that he co-opted. Not cool. You're a saint to have put up with it as long as you have. Tell him this weekends project is to move his sh$t out of your office because you need the space. Since he has an office to go to and you don't, this is how it needs to be.

This would be an absolute deal breaker for me. It's one thing if no one has a choice and you make do as best you can, but he does have a choice. I'd die on this hill, and I'm normally a pretty chill person.[/quote]

Yes, you are right. Another reason I'm so bitter. He took over my home office during covid when I was laid off. Moved all his stuff in, and now I work in the kitchen, dining room, bedroom if the kids are home, etc etc. I'm on the phone/zooms during the day, so this isn't exactly an easy shift. He has a freaking office to go to and I don't. All of this is boiling in me. I celebrate when he has rare occasional travel, a round of golf in the afternoon, etc. [/quote]

It makes sense for him to take over the office since you were laid off. I can't relate to you at all.  Both of us working from home has been the best part of the pandemic. Agree with PP that he will stay out of your hair if you give him some one on one time.[/quote]

Who cares if it is working for YOU! You didn't marry OPs husband. SHE did and it is not working for her which means it is not working for their marriage and something needs to change. That is what marraige is about, making a situation work for both. How about he goes in every other week? [/quote]

How about she rents or finds a space outside of the house and SHE'S the one who gets to deal with the hassle, since she's had all these years with the home to herself?[/quote]

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