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[quote=Anonymous]	My guess is that your nice coparenting relationship would come to an end if you knew he was out with a girlfriend or that he was texting a girlfriend during family or kid events. You can’t just take his phone away from him. 
He’d have the new high of a budding relationship even if it was just sexual, and then he’d come home to look for your kid’s boots that disappeared only to go to bed alone or worse,next to the woman who doesn’t want him. That won’t last very long, assuming he even came home and why would he? If you are still married, he’s got no reason to be home, not when you are. Not to mention, there aren’t a lot of people who want to f**ck a married person, or at least not ones that a healthy adult, one who is mentally healthy wants to f**ck.

Set up all the rules you want, but he doesn’t have to follow them, this isn’t third grade.  You can’t exactly call the cops and tell them to go bring your husband home. 
He seems like the sort of guy who wouldn’t want an open relationship anyway, traditional men don’t tend to roll that way, my husband wouldn’t. Be whatever sexual orientation you want, just don’t expect the people who associate with you to continue their association if you put them in a position they are uncomfortable with.

Finally, you wouldn’t really be fine with a divorce, you like your house and lifestyle. That would all go away if you two weren’t married, and on some level you know that. 
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