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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Therapy isn't a tool for you to get your way.
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Money for a housekeeper is the best therapy in this situation. [/quote]

The housekeeper isn’t going to help with the daily cleanup. [/quote]

Employ a  cleaning lady to come twice a week. Pay her hourly for also doing some housekeeping chores like laundry.  If you have a huge pile of dirty laundry,  wash the undles and towels at home and send out the rest to be washed and folded for at least the first time.  It may cost you $500-$600 that one time but you are done.  Look for the kinds of place that market themselves as "Drycleaning Warehouse". [/quote]

Do laundry every day - even if these are small loads.

I have two empty dresser drawers  for each family members. They are for clothes that have been worn once and may not be that fresh.  They are not 100% fresh and clean to be kept with clean clothes and they may be worn a couple times  more before getting washed.  Instead of these clothes being on the floor, I expect my family to keep it in those drawers. They get worn after a few days and then washed.  The drawers are a great place holders.  It has significantly cut down on our laundry.

And also, using an empty laundry basket instead of the dresser drawers makes the room a mess somehow. The clothes have to be in the dresser for it to work, or hung in an empty corner in the closet.

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