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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In July of 2021, after being blamed of prioritizing my parents over her by my MIL to DH, I dropped the rope. I can count on one hand the number of times DH has visited with our children over the past year. We haven’t had a single visit as a family, because I haven’t planned it or encouraged he plan it. Not a single dinner. Not one gift. No cards. No flowers. Because I haven’t purchased them. I’m not even sure the last time he spoke to her, because I haven’t encouraged him to. I wonder if deep down she realizes, even though she’d never admit it. Ladies, do yourself a favor if you haven’t already and put the rope down. It’s heavy and you don’t need to carry it by yourself. [/quote] I'm sad for you, OP. You sound like a really ugly person inside and very unhappy. You may think that your post makes you sound strong but it really makes you sound petty and weak. Instead of trying to provide balance in relationships by equally honoring your parents and your husband's parents, you've chosen to act in a way that is ungenerous and spiteful. Your poor children. You're modeling for them narrow-minded and vindictive behavior. What an ugly person you are inside.[/quote] Her doing all of the work for BOTH sides of the family is "providing balance?" That, as well as the rest of your saccharine post, is impressively wrong.[/quote]
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