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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not wanting to ride with a slow girlfriend just sounds like a bs excuse to keep her away so he can creep on his fan girls. The guy is clearly a scumbag late bloomer Lothario. [/quote] He’s a champion pro cyclist, which means he has to practice at a level in which 99.5% of us couldn’t “keep up.” I totally get not wanting to ride with your S/O who can’t match his speed. Of course, the problem with this is that between a day job and many hours of training per day, he’s probably spending very little time with the girlfriend. He was just a guy who shouldn’t have been in a relationship with someone who wasn’t as equally independent as him. [/quote] I agree they shouldn't have been in a relationship but I would not describe him as "independent". Friends and acquaintances said this was a pattern with him -- choosing needy, mentally unstable women, stringing them along, and then betraying them in ways small and large, resulting in fireworks. He was obviously addicted to the drama or the co-dependency or something. This isn't a defense of the girlfriend but this guy is not just some innocent bystander in this. Some people get off on seeking out people who are obsessive, dependent, slavishly devoted to them. A mentally healthy person will not enjoy that kind of attention or relationship. Would you want a partner who was intensely attached to you to the point of neediness, who would fly off the handle if they sense you were pulling away? I definitely would not, and I question the mental stability of people who enjoy that kind of drama. It's really sad that the victim got caught up in this game he was playing. He may not have murdered anyone, but he's not innocent either.[/quote]
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