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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband needs to tell his sisters to take you off this chart. If they challenge him, tell him to ask them to show where their own spouses are listed on this schedule. [/quote] This. You don’t get involved, you don’t respond. This is his battle.[/quote] Sisters spouse is on the chart. Other sister is not partnered. OP is not on the chart, she’s mad they are asking. OP if you don’t like your SILs and don’t want to participate you don’t have to. It sounds like you don’t like each other so maybe it’s for the best. [/quote] I am the OP. My MIL is a warm and friendly person, she has a good sense of humor and she is not judgmental. I will support her on my own terms and leave my SILs and the spouse of my one SILs out of it. I would be more accommodating towards my SILs if they had made an effort with me and shown me some friendship over the last 25 years (as explained in my previous posts). I agree with my husband's own words; they are self-absorbed and they suffer from tunnel vision because they're only interested in themselves. They've made their bed ... I look forward to seeing MIL soon, just her, my husband and me. The others can do as they please [/quote]
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