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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can we move on from discussion around bringing a hostess gift? I think most normal people would agree it’s not a huge deal if someone doesn’t bring one.

I would like to know [b]how both sets of guests thought it was OK to ask for leftovers to take home[/b]? It’s one thing if they are offered but I find it strange to ask for them [/quote]

That didn't happen, OP added that to justify her outrage.[/quote]

Maybe it did happen? I know it would never be done in my circles, but I think in other cultures (aside from white/jewish) it's common to leave with "a plate" for later.[/quote]

Down home (not rich) Southern people both white and black will send you with a plate. And it's freaking delicious food. I'm hungry for ham and yams now... [/quote]

To leave with a plate, to be sent home with a plate, sure. This is particularly common in certain cultures and is common for large gatherings and potlucks. I think it is rude to ask to take home leftovers, not to accept leftovers that are offered.[/quote]

Did OP say if the guests asked or were given leftovers b.c the hosting family offered? [/quote]

Pp I saw posts responding to that effect but I don’t see that written in the original post. If OP offered, the guests were in no way rude for accepting. OP, did the guests ask for leftovers or did you offer them? If the latter they weren’t being rude. [/quote]

They asked! Rude. [/quote]

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