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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]New boyfriend of 3 months and I watched a comedy routine last night.[b] We're both 41yo.[/b] The comedy routine was Patrice O'Neil from 2011 and the comedian has admitted in interviews he's a misogynist. [b]He talks a lot about "old pu**y" (e.g., women over 40 years old),[/b] and how every man thinks about killing his wife to get her to shut up, etc. He also talks about how men are like fishermen and just want to catch a fish (a woman), show it off to his friends, and then toss it back into the sea immediately.

We were both laughing. Obviously it's meant to be provocative. However, we were talking afterwards and bf said that's how men really think and they don't want women to know, and he could relate to a lot of it.

I laughed it off but now I'm thinking more about it. Does he really hold those disrespectful views toward women? I have not seen any evidence of that in real life, but it gave me pause. Is this a red flag, or am I overthinking it?[/quote]

This is why OP is upset. This is similar to when your DH or BF says so and so attractive. You compare yourself to that person and it goes down hill. [b]Comedy routine makes fun of old pu**y and she thinks hey that is me….why are you laughing at that/me[/b]. You must agree about old pu**y. It just makes it personal. [/quote]

So basically, OP is making up something to be mad at.  [/quote]

No she is upset that she is the butt of the joke. BF should not have laughed. [/quote]

He should not have laughed at a comedy show? [/quote]

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