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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Honestly, this makes me roll my eyes. Every woman I know has felt undervalued as a wife and person, and their husbands treat married and family life as a chore and lack all enthusiasm. Dudes should think about practicing what they preach, if they want enthusiasm and to feel valued, lead by example rather than nagging.
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PF - this advice should work for both parties in a marriage.  Every man I know has felt undervalued as well.

What I hear most, however, is women wanting their DH to change without making any effort to change themselves. Watch.

This post will be met with "How do you expect me to do _____, when he is always screwing up _________?" It is easy to focus on what others can do for you.[/quote]

The person who wants change has to be the one to change.  If you’re unsatisfied with the amount of sex, you are the one who needs to make changes, particularly if you have the spare time, spare energy, and spare money for an affair.[/quote]

I think the folks who say that cheating is inevitable would argue that having the husband being monogamous instead is something that the low sex wife wants to change about the status quo. So, if she wants him to be faithful, she has to be the one to change.

Point being that your "person who wants change has to be the one to change" implicates them both. [/quote]

Perhaps but it’s a false equivalence. If your spouse has ceased to be faithful they have lied and put your life at risk. The question isn’t whether to increase your sexual frequency, it’s whether to remain married.[/quote]

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